❗FULL PROSESI UPACARA TINGKEBAN/MITONI ADAT JAWA❗ Dimas & Melisa, 29 Mei 2022 • MC: Harsono

Introduction

This tutorial provides a comprehensive guide to the traditional Javanese ceremony known as Tingkeban or Mitoni, which celebrates the seventh month of pregnancy. This ceremony is significant as it aims to bless the mother and the unborn child for a safe delivery. Understanding the steps involved in this ceremony can help individuals or families prepare for this important cultural event.

Step 1: Preparing for the Ceremony

• Choose a Date: Select a date that falls on the seventh month of pregnancy. It is ideal to consult with family members to find a date that is auspicious.
• Invite Guests: Create a guest list of family and close friends who will participate in the ceremony. Send out invitations well in advance.
• Select a Venue: Choose a suitable location for the ceremony, which could be at home or a rented space that accommodates your guests.

Step 2: Gathering Traditional Items

• Decorations: Prepare Javanese traditional decorations such as flowers, banners, and other symbolic items that represent good fortune.
• Food: Organize a menu that includes traditional dishes typically served during the ceremony. Common foods include:
  • Rice
  • Fried chicken
  • Vegetables
  • Cakes and sweets

Step 3: Setting Up the Ceremony Space

• Arrange Seating: Set up seating arrangements for the guests, ensuring the expectant mother has a comfortable and prominent place to sit.
• Create an Altar: Build a small altar where offerings can be placed. This often includes fruits and flowers as a symbol of gratitude and blessings.

Step 4: Conducting the Ceremony

• Opening Prayer: Begin the ceremony with a prayer or blessing led by a respected elder or religious figure.
• Traditional Rituals: Perform traditional rituals which may include:
  • Symbolic offerings
  • Recitation of prayers
  • Sharing of blessings for the mother and child’s health

Step 5: Celebrating with Family and Friends

• Sharing Stories: Encourage guests to share stories or advice regarding motherhood and parenting.
• Gift Giving: Guests may bring gifts for the mother and baby, which are an essential part of the celebration.

Conclusion

Tingkeban or Mitoni is a heartfelt celebration that emphasizes the importance of family and cultural traditions in preparing for a new life. By following these steps, you can ensure that the ceremony is meaningful and memorable. Consider documenting the event through photos or video, and cherish the memories created during this special time. For further assistance or to book an MC for your ceremony, contact Harsono at the details provided in the video description.