The Beauty of Biblically Broad Complementarianism

Introduction

This tutorial explores the concept of biblically broad complementarianism as discussed by Kevin DeYoung at the CBMW lunch event during TGC19. It aims to clarify the principles of complementarianism, how it relates to gender roles in the church and family, and its biblical foundations. This guide will help you understand and apply these concepts in a practical manner.

Step 1: Understand Complementarianism

• Definition: Complementarianism is the belief that men and women have different but complementary roles in the church and family.
• Biblical Basis: Familiarize yourself with key scripture passages that support this view, such as Genesis 1:27, Ephesians 5:22-33, and 1 Timothy 2:12-15.
• Importance of Balance: Recognize that complementarianism emphasizes equal worth and dignity for both genders while maintaining distinct roles.

Step 2: Explore Broad Complementarianism

• Concept Overview: Broad complementarianism expands on traditional views by allowing for a wider range of roles and gifts for women within the church.
• Key Points:
  • Women can serve in various capacities, including teaching and leadership roles, as long as they align with the church’s teachings on authority.
  • It encourages a more inclusive approach within the framework of scriptural teachings.

Step 3: Engage with Practical Applications

• In the Church:
  • Encourage women to lead in areas such as teaching, missions, and community service while respecting theological boundaries.
  • Foster dialogue about the roles of women in ministry and support their spiritual gifts.
• In the Family:
  • Promote collaboration between spouses in decision-making, emphasizing partnership while respecting individual roles.
  • Discuss the importance of mutual support in parenting and household responsibilities.

Step 4: Address Common Misunderstandings

• Misconception: Complementarianism is often confused with patriarchy.
  • Clarification: While patriarchy emphasizes male dominance, complementarianism focuses on partnership and respect.
• Encourage Open Discussion: Create an environment where questions and concerns can be addressed without judgment.

Step 5: Cultivate a Community of Understanding

• Educational Initiatives:
  • Host workshops or Bible studies focused on understanding gender roles from a biblical perspective.
  • Invite speakers or leaders who can provide insights and experiences related to broad complementarianism.
• Build Relationships: Encourage community members to share their experiences and perspectives on gender roles in a respectful manner.

Conclusion

Biblically broad complementarianism offers a framework for understanding the distinct but complementary roles of men and women in the church and home. By fostering open dialogue, encouraging practical application, and addressing misconceptions, you can create a supportive environment that honors both genders. As you move forward, consider how you can apply these principles in your community and personal life.