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Introduction

This tutorial reflects on the teachings of Ustadz Naldi Taqy regarding true happiness from an Islamic perspective. It emphasizes that genuine happiness transcends material achievements and is rooted in a harmonious relationship with Allah, oneself, and others. By following these steps, you can cultivate a deeper understanding of happiness and implement practical actions in your daily life.

Step 1: Cultivate Gratitude

• Recognize the importance of gratitude as a foundation for happiness.
• Reflect on the blessings in your life, both visible and hidden.
• Incorporate moments of gratitude into your daily routine, such as:
  • Writing a gratitude journal.
  • Saying thank you for small blessings, like health and faith.
• Remember the Quranic verse: "If you are grateful, I will surely increase your favor upon you" (QS Ibrahim: 7).

Step 2: Follow the Example of the Prophet Muhammad

• Understand that true happiness is not linked to wealth or status but to proximity to Allah and serving others.
• Emulate the Prophet’s simple lifestyle and focus on helping others.
• Engage in acts of kindness and service to others, as the Prophet said: “The best of people are those who are most beneficial to others.”

Step 3: Choose Positive Relationships

• Surround yourself with people who inspire and motivate you.
• Identify friends who encourage you towards goodness and closeness to Allah.
• Avoid negative influences that may lead you away from your goals.
• Reflect on the saying of the Prophet about the value of good companions, like the seller of perfume.

Step 4: Practice Good Character

• Focus on developing noble character traits such as honesty, patience, and respect.
• Engage in simple actions that reflect good manners, such as:
  • Speaking kindly.
  • Showing empathy towards others.
• Remember the Prophet’s mission: “I was sent to perfect good character.”

Step 5: Manage Your Time Wisely

• Recognize time as a precious blessing that should be managed effectively.
• Balance your daily activities between worship, work, family, and social engagements.
• Take inspiration from the Prophet’s example of proportional time management for various aspects of life.
• Reflect on the Quranic verse: “By time, indeed, mankind is in loss, except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds” (QS Al-Asr: 1-3).

Step 6: Engage in Regular Acts of Kindness

• Understand that small, consistent deeds are more beloved to Allah than larger, infrequent actions.
• Incorporate simple good deeds into your life, such as:
  • Offering a smile to others.
  • Saying a prayer before meals.
  • Giving charity, even if it’s a small amount.

Step 7: Leave a Lasting Legacy

• Reflect on the impact you want to have after you are gone.
• Focus on actions that create lasting benefits, including:
  • Charity (sadaqah jariyah).
  • Sharing beneficial knowledge.
  • Raising righteous children who will pray for you.
• Remember the Prophet’s teaching that good deeds continue after death through these three acts.

Conclusion

Achieving true happiness requires a shift in focus from worldly achievements to spiritual fulfillment and positive relationships. By cultivating gratitude, following the Prophet's example, managing time wisely, and engaging in acts of kindness, you can find deeper joy and satisfaction in life. Consider taking small steps today to implement these principles, and reflect on your journey towards true happiness.