حكم وضع دبلة الخطوبة # أ. د. سليمان الرحيلي حفظه الله

Introduction

This tutorial discusses the ruling on wearing engagement rings in Islamic tradition, based on the insights of Dr. Muhammad Irsan and the interpretation of the teachings of A. D. Suleiman Al-Rahili. Understanding this topic is important for individuals considering engagement practices within the context of their beliefs.

Step 1: Understand the Cultural Significance

• Recognize that engagement rings have cultural meanings and vary across different societies.
• In many cultures, the engagement ring symbolizes commitment and the intention to marry.
• Consider how societal norms influence personal beliefs regarding wearing such jewelry.

Step 2: Explore Islamic Perspectives

• Review different scholarly opinions on the permissibility of wearing engagement rings in Islam.
• Some scholars find that wearing rings is permissible as long as they do not contain symbols or elements contrary to Islamic teachings.
• Others may argue against wearing rings based on their association with non-Islamic traditions.

Step 3: Evaluate Personal Intentions

• Reflect on your reasons for wanting to wear an engagement ring.
• Ensure that the intention aligns with Islamic values, focusing on commitment rather than mere social status.
• Consider discussing your thoughts with knowledgeable individuals in your community or religious leaders.

Step 4: Choose Appropriate Jewelry

• If you decide to proceed with wearing a ring, select one that is modest and does not draw undue attention.
• Avoid extravagant or overly luxurious designs that might contradict Islamic principles of humility.
• Opt for materials that are considered halal, avoiding those that might have religious or cultural prohibitions.

Step 5: Discuss with Your Partner

• Have an open conversation with your partner about the significance of an engagement ring.
• Ensure mutual understanding and respect for each other’s beliefs regarding the practice.
• Decide together what symbolizes your engagement, whether through a ring or another method.

Conclusion

In summary, the decision to wear an engagement ring should be approached thoughtfully, considering cultural significance, Islamic rulings, and personal intentions. Engage in discussions with your partner and community to ensure your choices reflect your shared values. By doing so, you can make an informed decision that honors both your beliefs and your relationship.