Bondage Rope Dress Shibari Restraint Step by Step Tutorial | Pulse and Cocktails

Introduction

This tutorial will guide you through creating a stunning bondage rope dress using Shibari techniques. Designed for both beginners and those familiar with rope bondage, this step-by-step approach will help you safely and beautifully restrain your partner. You will need 9.5 meters of 6mm wide bondage rope and a pair of trauma scissors for safety.

Step 1: Prepare Your Materials

• Gather the following items:
  • 9.5 meters of 6mm wide bondage rope
  • A pair of trauma scissors (for quick release)
• Ensure you have a comfortable space to work, ideally with a soft surface.

Step 2: Understanding Basic Knots

• Familiarize yourself with basic knots commonly used in Shibari:
  • Square Knot: Used for securing two ends of the rope.
  • Lark’s Head Knot: A simple way to start your rope work.
• Practice tying these knots before starting the dress.

Step 3: Start with a Base Harness

• Create a simple harness around the torso:
  • Measure and cut a length of rope (around 2 meters).
  • Wrap the rope around the chest, just under the bust.
  • Secure the ends with a square knot at the back.
• Adjust for comfort and ensure it’s snug but not too tight.

Step 4: Create Vertical Elements

• Use additional lengths of rope to create vertical lines:
  • Cut lengths of rope (about 1.5 meters each).
  • Attach these to the base harness using Lark’s Head Knots.
  • Space them evenly for aesthetic appeal.

Step 5: Weave the Rope

• Begin weaving the vertical ropes:
  • Take the left vertical rope and cross it over the right.
  • Loop the right rope under the left and pull it through to create a knot.
  • Repeat this process down the length of the vertical ropes, creating a pattern.
• Ensure the weave is tight but allows for flexibility.

Step 6: Form the Skirt

• To create the skirt portion:
  • Gather the ends of the vertical ropes and spread them outward.
  • Use additional rope to connect these points, forming a skirt shape.
  • Secure with square knots at the desired length.

Step 7: Final Adjustments and Safety Checks

• Adjust the dress to ensure it fits comfortably on your partner:
  • Check for any pinching or tight spots.
  • Ensure that the trauma scissors are accessible at all times.
• Discuss safety with your partner, establishing safe words or signals.

Conclusion

You have successfully created a bondage rope dress using Shibari techniques. Always prioritize safety and communication with your partner. Consider experimenting with different styles and patterns as you become more comfortable with the techniques. Remember to practice regularly and refine your skills for a more intricate design in the future. Enjoy your journey into the art of rope bondage!